HOW THE FIRST "VANS" WERE CONVERTED
TO
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
By
Genevieve Van Wagenen
Halmagh John Van Wagenen and Mary (Polly) Van Houten were both of
Dutch descent. They were married December 22, 1810 at Horseneck Dutch Reformed Church,
Bergen County, New Jersey, by reverend John Duryee.
Halmagh and Mary settled in Wanaque, Pompton township, Bergen County
(now Passaic County), New Jersey. Here they became the parents of five children: John,
Henry, Hanna, Ann, and Sarah. They were a happy, industrious, thrifty, hard-working
family. Halmagh was a farmer. He grew a variety of crops, including flax. From the flax
Mary wove linen tablecloths, sheets, towels, and material which she colored for her
childrens dresses. As the children grew, Mary taught them to mend, darn, patch, and
care for their belongings. She taught her daughters to card, spin, weave and sew.
Mary was a good homemaker and kept a very attractive home. Her
needlework pieces were real art treasures. She made a marvelous carpet of wool. Taking the
wool from sheep they raised, she dyed it several colors. She carded and spun it into heavy
yarn and wove it into a magnificent carpet, which was given to cover one of the rooms in
the Nauvoo Temple.
Mary was neat and very particular and she taught and trained her
daughters well, She said, "Learn to do your work well now. When you get older, if you
want to slight it then, you can. But you must learn to do it right."
John, the eldest son, was apprenticed out for seven years. He learned
the carpenter and the wheelright trade. The Van Wagenen"s Built a lovely home in
Wanaque. It had a beautiful hand-carved walnut staircase and china cupboards which the
family were very proud of. No doubt John was the creator of these beautiful carvings.
The Van Wagenens were a happy, united family. United in all but one
thingreligion. Mary was a Presbyterian. She was devoted and faithful to her church.
Halmagh, on the other hand, would not attend or have anything to do with any church. In
fact, he was very much opposed to religion. Halmaghs attitude worried and grieved
Mary. She wanted her children to be Christians-good Christiansbut how to accomplish
it with a house divided? Halmagh was firm in his convictions. "I cant see
anything in religion," he said.
It was about this time that the Mormon missionaries came to New Jersey.
Out of curiosity John, the eldest son, attended some of their meetings. He bought a Book
of Mormon and some other Mormon literature. Knowing the sentiments of his father and not
wishing to hurt his mother, he kept the book secreted in a drawer in his room. Every
opportunity he could find he would slip into his room and read the book. It fascinated
him. He could hardly put it away to do his work. He attended more meetings, asking
questions and received enlightening answers. John studied and prayed and asked for
guidance. By now, the Book of Mormon was more than interesting or fascinatingJohn
knew it was true. He had a testimony. He was so thrilled with what he read and heard, he
longed to share it with his family but he didnt dare. Prudence and fear of ridicule
stopped him.
One morning the men folks were away at work. Mary was ironing. Her aged
mother was busy darning socks and humming as she rocked by the fire. Sarah was preparing
the bread for the oven. "Sarah," called her mother, "as soon as you put the
bread in the oven, come here. Will you please gather up the stockings, these grandma had
darned, and take them with these shirts Ive ironed to Johns room. Put them
away neatly and while youre there, tidy up his room. I think John has been
neglecting it lately."
Sarah climbed the stairs with an armful of carefully paired and rolled
stockings and the shirts. She opened the door and tossed the socks on the bed while she
hung the shirts in the wardrobe closet. She began tidying up the room. She pulled open the
stocking drawer to put them away. For a minute she stood frozen to the spot. Her eyes
bulged. Her mouth gaped open wide. She gasped a deep breath. Automatically her hand flew
to her throat and she pressed it hard against her chest as if to keep her pounding heart
from bursting. Was she seeing things? Slowly and cautiously she reached her hand out and
touched it. It was real! But what was it doing here?
MORMONS. The word seemed to leap at her. She had heard of the
Mormonsthe Minister had warned everybody about the awful Mormons. A sickening
feeling came over her. She must tell mother. Never had Sarah made the stairs in such
record time. From the hall she motioned for her mother to come quickly. This was private.
Grandmother (Annatje Roome Van Houten) must not know. At her age it would upset her
terribly.
"What is it, Sarah? You look like you have seen a ghost."
"Its awful, mother! Its awful," she whispered.
"Im afraid John is going to join the Mormons."
"The Mormons? Thats nonsense! Wherever did you get an idea
like that?"
"Hes got their terrible book in his drawer," said
Sarah. "I saw it with my own eyes. I touched it."
"Well dont you worry your pretty head anymore," she
said reassuringly. "Ill take care of the matter. John has better sense than to
do a thing like that. Whatever you do," she warned, "dont say anything
about this, to anyoneleast of all to your father." Sarah promised. She visioned
what it would be like if he knew.
Mary couldnt settle down to her work until she had opened the
drawer and verified the evidence. There it was in black and white. She closed the drawer
quickly. A feeling of restless uneasiness swept over her. She tried to put it out of her
mind, but it kept coming back. "John is a good sensible boy," she kept
reassuring herself. "He wouldnt do this. Its just that he has an
inquiring mind, and Ive always admired him for that."
As Mary sat down to help grandma with the mending, grandma inquired,
"Whats bothering you, Mary? You look worried."
"Im just tired, Mama." But Mary was worried. She was
recalling how much of late John had chosen to stay in his room. And he had been evasive
occasionally, as to his whereabouts, when he had gone out lately. Maybe Sarah was right.
Maybe John was thinking of joining the Mormons. "I must handle this tactfully,"
she vowed to herself.
The next evening, after a day of much praying for guidance, and after
most of the family had retired, Mary knocked on Johns door. His lamp still burned.
"Its mother, John. May I come in?"
"Youre always welcome, Mother," he said, as he slid the
book under his pillow. Mary pulled the chair near his bed. She held his manly hand and
looked into his sun-tanned face and his honest blue eyes. "Its about that Book
of Mormon, son." There was a moment of awkward silence.
"You found it?"
She nodded her head affirmatively.
"Im glad you found it. Have you read any of it?" he
asked eagerly.
"No, son."
"Youll want to read it, mother. Its the most wonderful
book I have ever read. I know its true."
"Now John," she said in a cautioning voice, "how do you
know?"
"Let me read you something," he said, turning the pages of
the Book of Mormon searchingly. "Here it is, Moroni 10:4-5. Listen carefully to this
promise, mother." He read: And when ye shall receive these things, I would exhort you
that ye would ask God, the Eternal Father, in the name of Christ, if these things are not
true; and if ye shall ask with a sincere heart, with real intent, having faith in Christ,
he will manifest the truth of it unto you, by the power of the Holy Ghost
And by the power of the Holy Ghost you may know the truth of all
things.
"Mother, I have followed the Prophet Moronis counsel. I have
earnestly and sincerely prayed and I know it is true. If you would only read it, mother, I
would be so happy. Ill put the book in the desk in the hall. Then you can read it
whenever you get time. You better not let dad see it," he cautioned.
"Mother," he said, full of enthusiasm, "you will find it so interesting,
you wont be able to leave it alone. Say, Mother, Ill bet you didnt know
that Jesus visited America after His crucifixion. Well, He did. It tells all about it in
this book." John turned the pages to where he had it marked. He briefed his mother in
on a few details surrounding the occasion: Jesus stood in the midst, he commanded the
multitude that they should kneel down. "Let me read it to you. It is in III Nephi,
Chapter 17:15-17: And when he had said these words, he himself also knelt upon the earth;
and behold he prayed unto the Father, and the things which he prayed cannot be written,
and the multitude did bear record who heard him.
And after this manner do they bear record: The eye hath never seen,
neither hath the ear heard, before, so great and marvelous things as we saw and heard
Jesus speak unto the Father.
And no tongue can speak, neither can there be written by any man,
neither can the hearts of men conceive so great and marvelous things as we both saw and
heard Jesus speak; and no one can conceive of the joy which filled our souls at the time
we heard him pray for us unto the Father.
"How beautiful," she said. "I think I would like to read
the Book of Mormon."
"Dont forget Moronis promise," John reminded, as
she closed the door behind her.
It was just as John had predicted. She couldnt leave it alone.
Household tasks were neglected s she read aloud to her family. They listened first out of
curiosity, but curiosity was soon replaced by enthusiastic desire. There was plenty of
suspense, especially when they had to interrupt the story and quickly put the book back in
the desk when Halmagh showed up unexpectedly.
They talked about the things they read with John. They began going to
the meetings to learn more. They were greatly impressed with the Book of Mormon, the
Gospel, and the missionaries. They were all convinced it was true. They decided to be
baptized. Mary had not mentioned a thing about it to Halmagh. The children hadnt let
a word of it slip in front of their father.
The day for the important event arrived. The house was buzzing with
activity as they made preparations.
"Whats going on?" demanded Halmagh. "What is this
you folks are all so busy about?"
Marys heart began beating faster. Suddenly she felt as if a chill
wind had flung open the door.
"You seem to have some secret," said Halmagh sternly.
Mary moistened her dry lips. "You see, Halmagh," she said
apologetically. "I have been going to tell you, but it seems I just havent had
the opportunity." She lowered her eyes, straightened her skirt. "You are so
opposed to religion. I meant to tell you before we went. You see, we have all decided to
join the Mormons, if you dont object."
"So you have been keeping me in the dark," he said in a very
disappointed tone. Then a big smile wrinkled his face. "You are not the only one with
a secret." His eyes twinkled merrily. "You see, I found Johns book. I,
too, have read the Book of Mormon. So if you will get my things ready, I will go with you.
I want to be baptized also."
Everyone was very much surprised but so happy and delighted. The
children hugged and kissed their father. Mary, having recovered from the shock, now rushed
into Halmaghs waiting arms. "You really want to be baptized?"
"I was never more serious in my whole life," he said. "I
know the truth when I hear it."
With a testimony of the truth, happy hearts and a wonderful feeling of
unity, they stood as a family on 13 April 1844, by the waters of baptism, and Elder John
Leach baptized each one into the Church, including Grandma Van Houten.
Halmagh could see real value in the Gospel. He attended his meetings
and was devoted to the Church. Halmagh was willing to make any sacrifice for the Church.
In 1844, the Van Wagenens desired to join the Saints in Nauvoo. They were unable to
sell or dispose of their property in New Jersey, so they left it behind. They established
themselves in Nauvoo. Here they endured the persecution and hardships with the Saints.
On the 25th of April, 1846, they left their home and the
beautiful city of Nauvoo for the West, where they hoped they could worship God according
to the dictates of their conscience. They crossed the Mississippi River in May and
traveled to Winter Quarters. Here they were to spend the winter. Again they build a home.
They made their own furniture, beds, tables, benches, etc. But due to the severe hardships
they encountered, and the lack of necessities, Mary died in October, 1846, and Halmagh
died soon after, on the 4th of December, 1846. They were laid to rest in the
Pioneer Cemetery, on the bench above the Winter Village. Their children came to Utah. They
became stalwarts in the Church, remaining true and faithful. They raised up a noble
posterity, full of faith and devotion and an honor to their courageous ancestors.
In 1936 the Church dedicated a beautiful monument at Winter Quarters,
now known as the Pioneer Memorial Cemetery, Florence, Nebraska. It was erected to honor
and pay tribute to those faithful, courageous Saints who "gave their all" for
the Gospel. The names of Halmagh Van Wagoner and Mary, his lovely wife, are inscribed
among the faithful, so honored.
Dr. Avard Fairbanks, the famous sculptor, who was commissioned to
create this great monument, is the second great grandson of Halmagh and Mary Van Wagoner.
Note: Many Nauvoo records were destroyed when the Saints were fleeing Nauvoo. The wagon loaded with records tipped over in the river. This is one reason we see more than one baptismal date. Even though many had personal histories and diaries with these dates recorded, they couldnt be verified with Church records.
SONG OF JOHN HALMAGHS GENEALOGY
By
Genevieve Van Wagenen
John Halma had five wives, John Halma had five wives, Hi, Ho, Van WagenensWagoner John Halma had five wives. He was quite a man, Yes, he was quite a man, As you all can see From this Van Clan. John took a pretty bride, The first one by his side, Her name was Eliza Smith, Her name was Eliza Smith. David was their son-- Their one and only son. He spelled his name with "EN" So we have Van Wagenen. |
When Eliza Died, John took another bride. Clarissa Tappen was her name, Clarissa was her name. Large families are a blessing, As in that early day, So to this union Ten children came to stay. John chose another wife, The third in his heaven, Elizabeth Young her name, They had children seven. However you spell your name, With an "E" or letter "R" You are one of the Van Clan Were mighty glad you are |
Sung by the Hawkins sisters: Cosette, Yvonne, Francine, and Sherri, for the Van Clan reunion at Fairmont Park, August 13, 1966. They were accompanied by their mother, Miriam Van Wagenen Hawkins. They are the great-great-great grandchildren of John Halmagh.
The very young can learn their genealogy and have a greater appreciation of their
ancestry, if they will sing these words to the simple tune of a familiar nursery rhyme.
NOTE: As John Helmaghs fourth and fifth wives have no children, their names were not
included in the song.